herculina's Blog

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Exactly. It's just one of the excuses that pisses me off the most. It's like going "oh it's not my fault I'm a pervert - it's natural!". Please!

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Younger women, especially teenagers, are more fertile than older women, and therefore a man's brain instinctively is attracted to them much more easily than it would be to an older woman.

This same evolutionary drive is the reason that men are attracted to large breasts, buttock, and legs, as these things are all visual cues of fertility.

Luckily, we aren't animals and most men are able to control their actions and urges, so that they do not do anything inappropriate. Our society has rules for a reason, and they should be followed, but that doesn't make the attraction any less genuine.

I hope that shines some light on the subject for you!

-bajoran

From Wikipedia (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Fertility#Female_fertility) :
The average age of menarche in the United States is about 12.5 years. In postmenarchal girls, about 80% of the cycles were anovulatory in the first year after menarche, 50% in the third and 10% in the sixth year. Women's fertility peaks around the age of 19-24 (...) .

19-24. NOT 13-18. I've had irregular menstruations since the time I first had them at all. It is simply NOT TRUE that teenage girls are more fertile than older girls. But sure, I've heard other men use that as an excuse too. I'm sorry but no, it is NOT "natural" and "biological".

I reckon that the reason must lie in psychological aspects (?), as Starwoman said, rather than in blind "animal instincts", as some would like to put it.

I'll probably need to ask in some psychology site, or something. Thanks anyway :)

PS: I didn't know that my topic would appear in three places simultaneously when I ticked the "categories" I thought it fell into - I just thought they would be tags or something. Sorry about that!

Lets put it another way herculina let me tell you some advantages of older men not specifying any age. Older men are not as selfish and would take you out to a diner or a movie not Just a 5 minute grope in the back seat at the drive in. Older men if theyre any good should have money and be able to show you a good time and give you experiences young men cant. For instance if you went to a fair older men wouldnt think it sissy to go on the ferris wheel with you or other girlie rides like that. Older men would tell you how pretty or beautiful you were and not just say what you want to hear to get a bit of sex.

Now heres just an example of something a young guy wouldnt know. When taking a girl from behind grab her arse cheeks and lift them slightly this exposes the clit for better stimulation or getting the tits if theyre big enough and bringing them together to lick both nipples at once. These are just 2 examples of what older men know.

When older men are looking a lot are thinking yes Id like to show her a good time not these young selfish 5 minute wonders and how do I know this we were all young once and wished we could have those days back again but with what we know now

-cabinet70

Completely off-topic.

...I still don't get what's so exiting about innocence and virginity and such. Do they make men feel more powerful, superior, or something...?

pringletot, if you aren't even 18 yet, it's just normal that you like girls from 13 to 18 years old! It would be kinda strange if you liked prepubescent girls, as flickr said. I don't know if that's the case, but if it isn't, sorry but you're not a pedo.

cabinet70, that poem and your comment to it just made me loath the world a bit more, if possible. *pukes*

Younger than 13? That's called pedophilia, and it ISN'T "normal". Children are cute in a NON-SEXUAL way.

Why do innocence and inexperience make men horny?

@ violent10dency:
I do the same with those guys, or just laugh in their faces when they don't look too dangerous.
I know that it's just natural for men to become interested in women as soon as they hit their puberty. What I don't understand is the "obsessive" interest that most men have towards only girls who have hit their puberty for no longer than a few years. I mean, there are loads of sexy and attractive older women (I mean 20-40, not necessarily older than that), so why do they have to look for us teenagers? It's disgusting to see adult men walking around with their family and staring at you as you walk by - while you could be their daughter.

I'm starting to think it may be the very fact that it is illegal to make men drool over teenage girls. The whole "ooh I'm doing something they could put me in jail for!" exitement. Maybe?

@ cabinet70:
Well, that isn't true for ALL teenage girls. At the same time, there are older women who do come up to those standards. So I don't see how you could make a universal statement about that.
Plus, how do you know "they taste delicious" and they have "tight sweet pussies"?

(sarcasm-->) ... exactly the type of answer I was hoping for XD

Why do adult men prefer (looking at, fantasising on, etc) younger girls than themselves (13 to 20 years old, or something)?

Please answer seriously (not just like, "THEIR HAWT", "nobody wants an old c*unt" and stuff), I've been asking myself this ever since I realised it (through direct experience).

Is it the "innocent" look? The "it could be my daughter/grand-daughter/whatever" kinkiness? What?

Also, what about the preference for virgin girls, too? What's the big difference? Why do you get horny at the thought of "teaching" us sex stuff that we may not have encountered yet?

It's just plain creepy for us younger girls, and a definite turn-off for women your age, so what's the point anyway?

Thank you.