Topic: Need some advice please - Is it me??

It sounds to me like hes upset because you hung up on him. You have tried to explain the situation several times. This leads me to think that if hes gonna get upset over such a small thing like this early in a relationship he might have some issues. I would suggest you forget about him and move on unless he rings you and has had some serious problems of his own to deal with.

Thank you both for your comments you have both helped me to realise that I am not crazy!

I also have no idea and I guess only time will tell (he has called since the weekend and told me a long story that I am not sure I believe!)

Lots of junk - What spelling mistakes were there? I checked maybe my Office 07 isn't working correctly?!? Also I am in the UK are you in the US cause we have different ways of spelling things?

Thanks thou guys!

he is from canada like me

Maybe that would explain the spelling differences and not errors??

yah who knows probly is

You need some advice from a woman on this I think. I think he's not sure what he wants, and to be honest if you haven't seen his kids and he hasn't seen yours than that is not normal. If you guys have not had sex yet I understand, but I think you should really get some time alone and recollect your thoughts, and just think about the situation your in. If he is not making an effort to see you, then maybe he likes your company more than the idea of being in a relationship with you. I'm sorry to say this, but either he works a lot or he probably has someone else he is interested in on the side. =/

Well, I don't know if you watched the Sex and the City series at all when it was on (or even if you haven't), but watch the first episode of the first season. The character they talk about goes through this exact thing. The truth is, we may never know why men do what they do. We may never know why they appear so interested and affectionate one minute, then distant and cold a minute later. And in reality, there's no difinitive answer anyone on here can give you. Sure, I could give you my personal opinion, or give suggestions or ideas, but at the end of the day, the reasons don't quite matter. What matters is that you need to accept he's made his decision (for whatever reason) and you need to move on. Don't get caught up on his reasons, because chances are, you'll never find out why he did that. Unless you were to chase him down and force him to tell you. But that wouldn't be in your best interest. Just be glad he never went so far as to sleep with you, or much worse, meet your kids, and cut your losses. Atleast you didn't put in a hell of a lot more effort. Who knows how much more of a disappointment this could have been a few years down the road. Find someone better for you hun, someone who will appreciate you and respect you, and someone who actually deserves your time. Nobody who is worth spending time with would do what this guy has done. Best advice? Forget him, and find someone truly special.