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I was at a pizza place today and the girl working the cash register was a total hottie. It was quiet and there were only me and two other guys there.

I saw her smiling at me while I was sitting at a table waiting for my pizza. I started making small talk with her (does she enjoy working there, etc.) and she came over and sat with me. We talked for a bit longer and she told me she came off at 6. Then she went back to work when someone else came in. She kept looking at me and smiling.

I was sitting there thinking about asking her out, but I didn't have my cellphone with me so I couldn't take her number. I decided I would just ask her her name and then somewhere later in the week I'd ask her for her number.

When my pizza was ready I took it from her. She she smiling at me and told me to enjoy it. I smiled back and told her to have a great weekend. :( :(

I didn't even ask her her name :O I feel so fucking stupid, she was giving me all the signals and waiting for me to do something and like an idiot I just choked.

I usually don't freeze up when talking to girls (a lot of girls have told me I don't waste any time lol). But I haven't been on a date in almost 4 years (I've gone to nightclubs and bars and gotten laid a few times, but no dates).

I don't know why, but I was suddenly nervous about starting a relationship again after so long although God knows I'm ready for one.

I want a good, clean relationship again where I take a girl to movies and buy her flowers and stuff and take some time to get to know her.

But now, I'm so scared that I gave off the wrong vibe and she thinks I'm a complete prick or an idiot! Now I am really nervous about asking her out :/

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just man up an do it

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"I want a good, clean relationship again where I take a girl to movies and buy her flowers and stuff and take some time to get to know her."

AWWWWW omg that is sooooo sweet. Yes I know I'm such a girl. She seems like a real classy girl, I think you should try going back and asking her out out on a date, I'm almost positive she'll say yes. =)

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First lesson your mobile fone should be with you at all times thats what its for

As far as the girl goes just go back there and try your luck again. She may not think your a prick and by not jumping on her as soon as you seen adds a bit of mystery and some girls klike that just go back with your fone and get her number Weve all missed opportunities like that if it doesnt happen it wasnt meant to be so dont worry about if it doesnt work out

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Thanks for the kind words =)

I'm just scared I've blowed it and that she thinks I'm not really interested in her when I am.

PS: I've always been like that to girls that I like. I found out once that this friend I had a crush on really liked sunflowers and so on her birthday I took time off at work and got her some sunflowers and took her to a coffee shop and we had cake and coffee. We were dating that very weekend =). My last girlfriend I took to the zoo when I found out she liked lions and as I was driving her back home I gave her a big stuffed lion I bought for her. Nothing makes me happier than seeing the girl in my life happy =).

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Hmmm interesting, I think I might learn some things about men from you guys. You see I don't know what it is but everytime a guy approaches me and starts flirting I go for the door a runnin'. I hate flirting, and small talk. I"m getting better at it though, I think I'm just shy. I don't know I seriously just think I don't want a guy my age, I want someone who is like 29 or 30, but not older than 35 or 36. I know this might sound a bit crazy, but my ideal perfect romance, you know like what you would see in a movie, is I meet a guy through work or school whatever, and we absolutely despise each other and then somehow slowly end up falling in love. AWW isn't that just so touching?......and then I crash back into reality head first. =(

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You'll find the right guy, I'm sure of it. A girl of your wit, charm and good looks is bound to snag herself a winner =)

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Thanks mate.

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That would sure be nice.

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Have you checked out the chat room, V?

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yea but when I go in nobody is in there.

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Me and dot is there now.

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Warlord the finest wines need time to mature.

Don't worry there's plenty of time for you to go and get her number.

Maybe you could ask her what is her favourite pizza and order that! mmm reminds me I did a similar thing LOL.

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Yes and then jizz on it and feed it to her shell love the secret sauce

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